Comments on: Nadya Suleman Official Website, Welcome To The Nadya Suleman Family Website

By: not judging someone i don't actually know!

not judging someone i don't actually know! — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 01:06:04 +0000

there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a big family (larger than the traditional 2 or 3) and there is no doubt that a mother can have plenty of love to go around no matter how many children she has whether it’s 1 or 20. people only say its crazy for anyone to want that many kids because they themselves aren’t capable of handling more than 1 or 2. believe it or not people, but there are some people out there that don’t get super stressed with just 2 kids and find it much easier and natural to take care of many children. unfortunately there are way too many parents now a days that don’t take the time to actually be involved in their kids lives and care more about themselves and making money than their family. and being a single mother is the most difficult and rewarding jobs there is! now do i think that you should have kids if you can’t afford them…no but then again if everyone planned their families when they could afford them than there would be no babies ever born in a recession and no teen pregnancies or children born out of wedlock! and really …tell me… how many of you can say that none of those things happened to you and it was ALWAYS the perfect time financially! it’s never the “right time” to afford a family and bills will always be there…whether you r unemployed or a millionaire! the only thing we really have is love. and with the divorce rate at over 50% right now, you can’t depend on always having a spouse to help you either. people are being way too judgmental! how can you really judge a person you’ve never actually met? you spend your time online and watching TV and you think you know whats going on in someone else’s life?!

By: Disgusted

Disgusted — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:02:22 +0000

I really don’t understand why someone would even think about having children just to make money it’s disgusting. The parents are supposed to support the children not the other way around. It makes me really mad to be supporting lazy, irresponsible people like you. I think we really need to be looking at the people who are handed (literally) checks for nothing way to many are on it that don’t need it they are just lazy and they should be held accountable for every penny spent. I don’t mind helping those who need it, but when you decide to put yourself there and choose to stay there while everyone else pays for everything no way!!! You have to be willing to help yourself before you should ever ask someone else to help you. Futhermore if they want to make welfare a career then they should have to be subject to drug testing like every other working person cause personally I don’t like supporting peoples bad habits.

By: Max

Max — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 13:10:47 +0000

Because it hasn’t been done, doesn’t mean its impossible. A difficult/overwhelming task it is, yes, can she raise these children, I don’t see why not. Give her a break, let her come out with her reality show, you’ll want her to live independantly off tax payers money. Give her some support. Be humane about it. If you can help her, do it, it will be a blessing. If I were living near her, I would certainly give her a hand. Folks, I have to ask this question is all this animosity you’ll have towards Nadya, because of ethnicity. Were she a blonde, blue eyed, woman, would you’ll feel differently towards her. Nearly every country has to support people who don’t have the means. It seems that some countries are just obsessed with fame and money, that everything else goes out the door.

Personally I hope she makes it big, and I hope her show becomes syndicated in my country. I would support her.

By: Bobbie

Bobbie — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 12:22:55 +0000

Please keep your head up, get rid of negativity. People don’t you realize that YOU are the ones affecting her as well. Everyone who has those horrible words to say… GO TO CHURCH: FORGIVENESS-LOVE-COMPASSION!!! I think what SHE needs right now is SUPPORT!

By: M.Kessler

M.Kessler — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 16:47:00 +0000

I am glad you fired Glorid Alred. It was she who was trying to pimp you and your kids for her face to remain in the media. Talk about a media ?, that Gloria. She needs to retire. As for her nurses who were really plants in the woman’s home to report to Gloria so she can remain in the media spotlight, they are just a bunch of know it all nurses who are more of a pain in the ? than help. Nadya, hire your own qualified nannies for your children. Get a diaper service that will provide diapers as needed, it will be cheaper than disposable diapers, little more work but will save you money. As soon as you can, get the rest of your children from the hospital and as soon as you can, move again to address unknown. I do not agaree with your decision to have so many children; but they are here now. I have known many parents who choose to have children who they cannot begin to afford to support in the name of religion or citizenship benefits and no one seems to want to address those issues. Nor do they want to address the issue of all the illegals who cross the border to drop a kid to attain welfare benefits. I am happy that you have hired a lawyer to advise you of your parental rights and other legal issues.

By: HoneyBee

HoneyBee — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 18:34:47 +0000

Please everyone file a fraud claim for DISABILITY FRAUD (octomom had 6 children while claiming total disability); STUDENT LOAN FRAUD(octomom received over $50000 in student loans for a school that charges approximately $3600 per semester and admitted on national tv she provides for her family on student loans!); WELFARE FRAUD (not reporting the school loan and parental support monies). Her children will NOT be alright with her for she is unstable! Let’s pray for a swift action from the California DCS and you do NOT have to live in California to make a fraud complaint against Natalie Dowd aka nadya suleman.

By: Tracy

Tracy — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 16:21:54 +0000

I think that Nadya and her wonderful family of 14 children will be ok and anyone who wants to provide her with assistance will, no matter what any of you “Judges” say. Go about with your own lives and spend time with your own children rather than spending wasted breath on here flapping your tongue. Nadya all that is required is love, trust,and acceptance, he will provide. Teach your children well.

By: Tori M.

Tori M. — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 08:56:19 +0000

I can’t believe all the hate. Nadya had all her children with much love to go around.

Many people suffering from infertility or no partner now have the opportunity for a chance to have their own children. Even Ricky Martin did it! He hasn’t met Miss Right, why wait? Children are a gift from God, they bring so much joy to those who really long for them.

Nadya is a smart young woman who has her education, she tried the marriage thing but it didn’t work. I think she should recieve the same opportunity that was given to other multi-birth family and allowed the chance to earn money to help raise her children. It will allow her to not have to go into the welfare system.

People had not ever treated the other multi-bith family with so much disrespect and hatred, why her? Just because she is single? What if she had gotten pregnant the natrual way, and had them one at a time, would anyone even care? Everyone say they are soo concerned about her getting tax payers money, but yet they criticize her for wanting to earn money for doing a reality tv show just like other multi-birth parents have done.

As a tax payer, I don’t mind my money going to a child in need rather then to greedy finacial institutions that are recieving Bail-Out money and giving themselves millions in bonuses.

This children are going into a loving home, no doubt about that. Families come in all sizes. Everyone has their own family story, some have 2 parents, some have one, some may have 4 parents including step parents, and some children may have joined their current family through adoption. It doesn’t matter how you got there or how many parent(s) you have, The most important of all is LOVE. You don’t have to be born in a wealthy family to be happy.

I wish them much love, hope, happiness, great health, and great family memories.

By: R.D.E.

R.D.E. — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:17:56 +0000

Hello Nadia,

I don’t know if you’ll ever see this or not, maybe someday when all this crazy stuff ends. I believe it will and then you and the babies can live in peace. I wish I could give you my full name, but like you if I did that, I too would more than likely get some pretty wacked comments. However I had to write you and hopefully let you know that myself and many others are praying for you.

Although I have not had as many Children as you, I have been under the great amount of pressure you are going through at this time, falsely judged without anyone there to really hear me out, once I was tagged with my situation, nobody wanted to hear the truth, they just wanted to believe all this evil stuff that came into their own sadly sick minds. So unfortunately nobody can know the feeling of pain, frustration and confusion your going through right now, unless they have been there too.

This world can sometimes be a very cruel place, but it’s also very beautiful and there are good people in it. So please make your choices well, pray about every one you make. Your not alone and there are people out there who are not as judgmental as you have had to endure during what should be a very happy time.

I understand wanting to save your babies, not just let them go, it’s no ones business either way. Your choices are between you and God, and nobody should ever punish you for bringing life into this world, my only prayer is that you will always be sure that they come first. I believe you will, no matter what the “media” or other people who just love the drama may say.

Remember your not alone there are others like me and others like you, we have been there, judged without a jury. So hang in there sweetie, as my Mother used to say “this too shall pass”!

Take care Nadia and God Bless all of those babies with health, love and the Lord.

Hugs in Christ
RE.

II Cor 5:17

By: Kae.

Kae. — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:23:18 +0000

Hi,
Lay off her.
She’s a single mother, okay?
It wasn’t all her fault. She’s still hoping and finding a way to get through this. And this publicyting isn’t helping one bit! They should be helping her, not tormenting her. Put those kids in foster care. Or adopotive or something. This women is still in love with her children, and never would do anything to hurt them. They are her children for God Sakes. She’s a poor women with obviously a mental illness. So this so called mother of hers should stop dealing with her 15 minutes of fame, and start caring for her daughter and child! Same with this father of the child! He’s the father of these fourteen kids. She didn’t do it alone. So, seriously people. Back off. She’s going through a tough time. Stop giving her a hard time, and start helping her.